A Rose Ceremony is a romantic way for the bride and groom to exchange their first gifts, and gives recognition to the new and most honorable title of "Wife and Husband". This Ceremony is simple yet profoundly moving. In the old language of flowers, a single red rose has always meant, "I love you". So it is only natural that the exchanging of two roses, should symbolize the giving and receiving of their love for each other throughout their entire married life. This Ceremony also conveys how to use the rose and its symbolism in difficult times in order to forgive each other, in ways that can endure through your married life together - this is a unique and meaningful addition to any marriage ceremony.
Your gift to each other for your wedding today has been your wedding rings - which shall always be an outward demonstration of your vows of love and respect; and a public showing of your commitment to each other.
You now have what remains the most honorable title, which may exist between a man and a woman - the title of "husband" and "wife." For your first gift as husband and wife, that gift will be a single rose.
In the past, the rose was considered a symbol of love and a single rose always meant only one thing - it meant the words "I love you." So it is appropriate that for your first gift - as husband and wife - that gift would be a single rose.
BRIDE and GROOM - Please exchange your first gift as husband and wife...
In some ways, it seems like you have not done anything at all. Just a moment ago you were holding one small rose - and now you are holding one small rose. In some ways, a marriage ceremony is like this. In some ways, tomorrow is going to seem no different than yesterday. But in fact today, just now, you both have given and received one of the most valuable and precious gifts of life - one I hope you always remember - the gift of true and abiding love within the devotion of marriage.
BRIDE and GROOM, I would ask that where ever you make your home in the future - whether it be a large and elegant home - or a small and graceful one - that you both pick one very special location for roses; so that on each anniversary of this truly wonderful occasion you both may take and exchange a rose as a recommitment to your marriage - and a recommitment that THIS will be a marriage based upon love.
In every marriage, there are times where it is difficult to find the right words. It is easiest to hurt who we most love. It is easiest to be most hurt by who we most love. It might be difficult sometimes to say the words, "I am sorry" or "I forgive you"; "I need you" or "I am hurting". If this should happen, if you simply cannot find these words, leave a rose at the spot which both of you have selected - for that rose then says what matters most of all and should overpower all other things and all other words.
That rose says the words: "I still love you." The other should accept this rose for the words that cannot be found, and remember the love and hope that you both share today.
BRIDE and GROOM, if there is anything you remember of this marriage ceremony, it is that it was love that brought you here today, it is only love which can make it a glorious union, and it is by love which your marriage shall endure."